You put language to something a lot of people feel happening but struggle to articulate. That idea of a “strategic lean” is powerful because it exposes how rarely big shifts happen overnight. It’s usually subtle, gradual, and easy to justify in the moment.
What stood out most is how you emphasized trajectory over isolated decisions. That’s such a needed lens right now. People tend to evaluate things in snapshots, but you’re calling attention to direction, which is where the real story is.
I also appreciate that this wasn’t alarmist for the sake of reaction, but thoughtful and observant. It invites people to slow down and actually examine what’s forming over time instead of just reacting to headlines or moments.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this! I've been thinking about this for a while and trying to keep my "lean" in check! :D Appreciate your comment! 🥰
Laura, this is so good as I hang on every word. This quote right here,
“But there is a weight to doubt that eventually creates its own gravity,” brings a chilling and insightful warning to us all. I cannot wait to read your book!
This is very powerful Laura! I love it! You have taken an amazing dive into painting a clear picture of our human condition. This is the spirit of deception we deal with in this modern age. But it didn't start with us, it goes right back to the beginning of time when Eve gave into the lie that there was something better waiting for her if she listened to the serpent.
Yes … and his tactics haven’t changed. He just morphs them to fit his purpose! Thank you so much for taking the time to read and for your comments. I really appreciate it! :D
Yes. For over thirty years. Until my reality became a prison. One I’d locked with my own hands. Until there was nothing left but darkness and the wreckage of my bitter fall from grace. When I finally reached for Him, God met me in that prison. Not with condemnation, but with unfailing love. “I’ve been waiting,” He whispered. “I am here.” Freedom isn’t found in the world. It isn’t found in our justifications or self-fulfillment. Freedom is only found in trusting in the One who made us. The One who loves us with an unfailing love and who draws us with kindness, Jeremiah 31:3. I KNOW. Because the moment I sought Him, God removed my chains and set me free. AMEN.
I’m so sorry you went through that! But I rejoice that God met you in that place as He does with mercy and love! I appreciate your comment here! I think of Psalm 147:3 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Thank you so much for sharing this! 🥹
Yes. For over thirty years. Until my reality became a prison. One I’d locked with my own hands. Until there was nothing left but darkness and the wreckage of my bitter fall from grace. When I finally reached for Him, God met me in that prison. Not with condemnation, but with unfailing love. “I’ve been waiting,” He whispered. “I am here.” Freedom isn’t found in the world. It isn’t found in our justifications or self-fulfillment. Freedom is only found in trusting in the One who made us. The One who loves us with an unfailing love and who draws us with kindness, Jeremiah 31:3. I KNOW. Because the moment I sought Him, God removed my chains and set me free. AMEN.
For me, I had many reasons I thought I should leave. Thought I should have left years ago. Thought I should have listened to those warning me before I married.
In hindsight, I realize that God had sent those people to me to warn me. But for whatever reason, I didn't listen. It wasn't because I actually loved the man. I think it was because I loved the idea of having a father for my kids and I had loved being married before.
Throughout, 36 years later, I see why God sustained me right where I am. Where I had been able to influence my step kids. Where I wouldn't have had the last three (of ten) and what a blessing they have been.
I love what you shared here! We are all on a journey. But when we can look back and see how God sustains us, even when we’re in a difficult place or a place of questions, He meets us. The you for taking the time to read. 😊
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I really appreciate it! I saw your post on prayer and it was so good! So practical and what people need to understand prayer as! So good! 😊
This is really sharp!
You put language to something a lot of people feel happening but struggle to articulate. That idea of a “strategic lean” is powerful because it exposes how rarely big shifts happen overnight. It’s usually subtle, gradual, and easy to justify in the moment.
What stood out most is how you emphasized trajectory over isolated decisions. That’s such a needed lens right now. People tend to evaluate things in snapshots, but you’re calling attention to direction, which is where the real story is.
I also appreciate that this wasn’t alarmist for the sake of reaction, but thoughtful and observant. It invites people to slow down and actually examine what’s forming over time instead of just reacting to headlines or moments.
Really strong piece! It sticks with you.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your comments. 😊
This is so deep. It has a very meaningful and powerful words spoken in this chapter.. I can’t wait to read them full.
Laura, you will have me thinking of the “strategic lean”’for days to come. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this! I've been thinking about this for a while and trying to keep my "lean" in check! :D Appreciate your comment! 🥰
Laura, this is so good as I hang on every word. This quote right here,
“But there is a weight to doubt that eventually creates its own gravity,” brings a chilling and insightful warning to us all. I cannot wait to read your book!
Thank you! This means so much to me! 🥹
This is very powerful Laura! I love it! You have taken an amazing dive into painting a clear picture of our human condition. This is the spirit of deception we deal with in this modern age. But it didn't start with us, it goes right back to the beginning of time when Eve gave into the lie that there was something better waiting for her if she listened to the serpent.
Yes … and his tactics haven’t changed. He just morphs them to fit his purpose! Thank you so much for taking the time to read and for your comments. I really appreciate it! :D
Exactly! 💯
You're very welcome! 🙂
Yes. For over thirty years. Until my reality became a prison. One I’d locked with my own hands. Until there was nothing left but darkness and the wreckage of my bitter fall from grace. When I finally reached for Him, God met me in that prison. Not with condemnation, but with unfailing love. “I’ve been waiting,” He whispered. “I am here.” Freedom isn’t found in the world. It isn’t found in our justifications or self-fulfillment. Freedom is only found in trusting in the One who made us. The One who loves us with an unfailing love and who draws us with kindness, Jeremiah 31:3. I KNOW. Because the moment I sought Him, God removed my chains and set me free. AMEN.
I’m so sorry you went through that! But I rejoice that God met you in that place as He does with mercy and love! I appreciate your comment here! I think of Psalm 147:3 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Thank you so much for sharing this! 🥹
Yes. For over thirty years. Until my reality became a prison. One I’d locked with my own hands. Until there was nothing left but darkness and the wreckage of my bitter fall from grace. When I finally reached for Him, God met me in that prison. Not with condemnation, but with unfailing love. “I’ve been waiting,” He whispered. “I am here.” Freedom isn’t found in the world. It isn’t found in our justifications or self-fulfillment. Freedom is only found in trusting in the One who made us. The One who loves us with an unfailing love and who draws us with kindness, Jeremiah 31:3. I KNOW. Because the moment I sought Him, God removed my chains and set me free. AMEN.
Congratulations on the progress with your book! That is so exciting💛 The language in this is so poetic and beautiful!
Thank you so much! I so appreciate your comments! Means a lot! 😊
I totally agree with Chad.
For me, I had many reasons I thought I should leave. Thought I should have left years ago. Thought I should have listened to those warning me before I married.
In hindsight, I realize that God had sent those people to me to warn me. But for whatever reason, I didn't listen. It wasn't because I actually loved the man. I think it was because I loved the idea of having a father for my kids and I had loved being married before.
Throughout, 36 years later, I see why God sustained me right where I am. Where I had been able to influence my step kids. Where I wouldn't have had the last three (of ten) and what a blessing they have been.
God has taught me a lot in the process.
I love what you shared here! We are all on a journey. But when we can look back and see how God sustains us, even when we’re in a difficult place or a place of questions, He meets us. The you for taking the time to read. 😊
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I really appreciate it! I saw your post on prayer and it was so good! So practical and what people need to understand prayer as! So good! 😊
Beautifully written, Laura. Thank you so much for sharing this.
Thank you so much! That means so much to me! 😊
Laura, this is so good!
“But there is a weight to doubt that eventually creates its own gravity,” is incredibly insightful. I cannot wait to read your book.
Thank you so much Donna! This means so much to me! 😊❤️